Unfortunately, this is not as rare as you might expect. UPT is tough, and if you're not all in, then you won't like it. And now-a-days, with all the Reduction in Force (RIF) and Force Shaping programs that come and go pretty consistently, if you drop out of pilot training, you could be kicked out of the Air Force! And what's even worse, is that the Air Force has made some former Lieutenants pay back their tuition from the Air Force Academy or their ROTC scholarship money! (My feelings about that are a whole separate issue...) (Reference Air Force Times; also saw this from personal experience.)
How can I avoid this happening to me?
- Be true to yourself. Don't let peer pressure convince you to try to be a pilot. Being a pilot isn't the only "cool" job in the Air Force; anyone who says that is ignorant. (It DEFINITELY is super cool, but it's not for everyone.)
- If you can afford to, try to get a few flights at a civilian flight school. Flight can cost anywhere from $80-$120/hr wet (meaning, including fuel) at some flight schools (depending on location, aircraft available, fuel cost, etc). It's expensive, but it's worth it. I'd personally recommend getting about 5-20 hours. If you can, try to solo at least once. It'll be a big confidence booster!
- Find someone who's a few years ahead of you and pick their brain. Ask them about a normal day at IFS and at UPT, what their biggest struggle was, etc. Another good question is, "If you had to do it all over again, would you?" They don't have to turn into a formal "mentor" or anything, but if they did, it can only help you and your career.
- Talk to your cadre and/or friends at your detachment that really know you as a person. Heed their advice. If your detachment commander flew F-16s for 20 years says that he doesn't think you'd like it, he probably knows what he's talking about. However, a 4-year Captain that works in personnel (no offense) may not be as good of a sound board to bounce your thoughts off of.
For tonight, I'll leave you with this picture...
Enjoy! :)